Building Emotional Equity

From Odusina Adewale Hiworks

When we stay in touch,
we give Trust a ginger and build Emotional Equity for a future Synergy or Reciprocity (Mutual Benefit).

Every relationship must be defined, classified and serviced or serviceable. If it can not be defined, then it must be dumped. Otherwise, it will be parasitical, goal-less, to no end and time wasteful.

It must be defined as one must have an end in view;  It must be known, where it is leading; definite goal(s).

It must be classified means one must differenciate relationship A from B and C from the rest; my inputs and expectations must be clear.

To service the relationship means, one must have capacity for effective engagement in all the cases, being willing and able to impact  so that one does not become a parasite or a waste of time  to any.

Servicing relationship could be an investment to improve the other parties so they can be valuable assets to the society in the future. It can also be a synergy towards a common interest or a trade in for a mutually beneficial interests.

In any of the cases, the other party or parties must equally be engaging either by showing appreciable adjustments in view of the improvement program or participating to achieve the common interest or trading in the expected values, in cash or kind.

If none of these is happening, cut the losses and discontinue.

The only exception to the rule is in the matters of FAITH, and that is because as a Christian, one must continue to engage with people outside and within on the matters of  FAITH  till the end of time; THE GOALS  are definite,classified and serviceable.