War is not a show of physical strength but ideological strength. Battle is one of those means to achieving the war and does not have to be some combat or physical escapades.Battles may also find expression through authoritarianism.
War may be lost even when a battle is won and war may be won when the battle is lost.
The war must be at the centre of focus for strategic planning, and the battle must be evaluated as a measure of the success of the ideology.
This is why in war, negotiation doors are open for all the parties to seek redress away from the confrontations or combats and in many cases, wars are won on those tables irrespective of who is better equipped for the battle.
Divorce is the outcome of failure of war fought for marital success, and it is widely prosecuted on unreconcilable differences.Most times, those are the differences we vowed to continually reconcile and the couple must be willing to win and also loose many battles to win the marital war. Winning and losing must be anticipated by Husbands and wives for the marriage to work. I know this is scratching the surface of that discussion.
Unruly children are most times the result of failure of war fought for parental success, but n some exceptional cases, there was no war at all, as children were allowed to grow their prodigality uncharted and unregulated.
When we allow or raise children from infant to teenagers to have everything they want because we want to pressure them and not hurt them, it is prodigals and rebels that will evolve.
Uncharted and unregulated children will become rebels, except God decides to handle the matter
, especially in very rare cases. Such children will never be grateful to such regrettable parenting.
Parenting is the process of charting and regulating the course children must follow because, as a parent with the blessing of hindsight, you are expected to know how to lead your wards through the journey to adulthood
The WAR is to help the children become responsible adults, and the battle is to enforce the stringent rules along the charted part with all the associated pains of leadership. Hiworks
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