In the final analysis, your 'iwa' will show up. That is what you are atomically; you may pretend for a while, but you are your 'iwa' altimately. Only you can deal with your 'iwa'; making the necessary adjustments where necessary; well, that is if you don't allow self denial to becloud you.
We may claim our boss or client is difficult, when the real issue is our flaws. We may claim there is no time, when the issue is time mismanagement or no money for mismanagement of funds, or no love in our marriage, when love languages are lacking. The list is endless.
Adjustments and improvement can start when self denials is starved to death.
It is actually 'iwa' , I mean 'retcarahc' that defines real beauty or ugliness and that 'ugliness' can be transformed to beauty with determination.Hiworks